The Wonder Of Wedding

1527140_10101012401072300_6781860170984257039_nLove is patient, love is kind…

Apologies for my absence, friends and neighbours. I’ve heard tell that the last month has flown by as though only a fortnight – it certainly has for me – and that must stand my excuse.

So much has happened in that time, including an other-worldly amount of transit, which I won’t go into, for fear of frightening you with the violence of my language.

Suffice to say, I’ve been around the world, it feels ten times over. I visited Singapore & went home to England, trekked up to Scotland, over to Wales, and even hopped across to Italy – all to bask in family, friendship and catchups – I’d not been back that way in two years.

But the highlight – that was a wedding. Today, back on kiwi soil, I’d like to tell you a love story.

You may remember, in the michaelmas of 2004, I went up to Cambridge to read theology. There I met a crowd of A-Staircase folk in my fresher’s term with whom I became fast friends. One wee group of us became referred to in and amongst ourselves as the bunnies.

Two of these bunnies, both studying history, both musically talented, both the most loyal and lovely of people, fell in love. There was laughter, joy, tea and cake (gatherings galore in Juliet’s room), and, of course, as life often holds, some tears (I once dropped Jonny’s birthday cake in the courtyard and cried). But, together, we flourished.

There was nothing quite like coming back together ten years on, convening where it all began and heading to the chapel to see these two bunnies take their vows.

Vows are a solemn affair, but life is full of lightness, and that was the overriding emphasis I took from the day. The world can be cruel, but it is worthwhile. Life can be spiteful, but it can be beautiful. It’s proven when two worthy people find their soul mate in each other and discover the happiness inherent in their togetherness.

I am not religious, but coming together to celebrate faith, hope and love for my friends and between my friends was certainly an experience to lift the spirit. I hope everyone experiences this kind of wonder.

Perhaps you may find this a strange post for me to write right now when I tell you my own love may be lost; when I tell you my days coming back are a little dark and lonely at the moment; that sometimes I feel as though everything’s a bit hopeless, especially when I see the news.

But I have been in the presence of energy, light and liveliness. I’ve held delight, loved it, appreciated it, not taken it for granted for one moment. Life one day will be wholly good again and I have no regrets.

I have seen love; I have known it. It is better to have loved and lost than not have loved at all, don’t you agree? At the same time, I’m happy to dance for those whose love everlasts. The important thing is that there is love in the world – it’s a wonder the way we can come together. In defiance of all the bad.

Jonny & Juliet – thank you for the inspiration your love and union brings. Thank you for making me dance with joy. May your dance last forever.

6 thoughts on “The Wonder Of Wedding

  1. ontyrepassages

    Glad you’re back safe and had the time of your life. I’ve always believed love is out there and continue to hold to that belief. I fuels my writing. I do hope that that which you’ve gained is not lost.

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  2. saraletourneau

    Awwwww! It’s beautiful to hear about not only the impact your friends have had on you, but the impact that witnessing their love has had on you. As long as you don’t lose hope and find a way to make room for it in your life, I’m sure you’ll find your own joyful relationship (again) in the future. Don’t forget to be a butterfly. 🙂

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    1. Sara Litchfield Post author

      Thanks Sara, there’s always hope, and I have a ridiculous amount of love to give! I won’t forget 🙂

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  3. jane

    Sorry to hear that you may be in need of a big hug and I can’t be there , don’t be too sad lovely girl, we love you and absolutely know you will be happy,gloriously happy some day soon,xx

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    1. Sara Litchfield Post author

      Ah thank you Jane, wish I could come and see you in France more than ever now! I’ll be fine, summer’s round the corner here and there’ll be sunshine in life again soon xxx

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